When an experience goes wrong it can be just as worthwhile as when all goes right
Summary
- When an experience goes wrong it can be just as worthwhile as when all goes right
Details
- When we buy something and its not good, we just get annoyed
- when an experience goes wrong, it becomes more memorable
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- Positive reinterpretation. When we buy an unsatisfactory material product, we tend just to feel pissed off. When an experience goes wrong, it can often be as worthwhile as when it goes right. Think of that time that you journeyed to the beach for a nice day of swimming, but forgot your bathers. You mustered the courage to swim in your underwear, and then did mad Olympic sprints between the ocean and your towel in the hope that no one would notice what you were wearing. The friend who came with you laughed at you all day long, you laughed when you related the story to people that evening, they laughed to hear about it, and you felt a little bit braver to boot. This effect can be found even with experiences that were quite gruelling at the time, as was noted by Seneca (the ancient Roman philosopher) when he said, “Things that were hard to bear are sweet to remember.”
Related
- Experience vs Money - Leonard Lauder
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- Our worst experiences can be our best teachers
- Expose yourself to novel experiences
- Enjoy each experience fully by stretching it out
- How you talk about your experiences will dictate how you feel about them. Reframing our goals and rewriting our stories are powerful tools - Alexi Pappas
- A mind that is stretched by new experience can never go back to its old dimensions - Oliver Wendell Holmes