Each human has a unique point of view
Summary
- Each human has a unique perspective built on his own memories, thoughts, ideas and experiences
Details
- Everything we see or hear or feel, is interpreted through the lens of our mind
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And this traumatic vignette highlights a central truth about what human beings are: A person is a point of view. Every person you meet is a creative artist who takes the events of life and, over time, creates a very personal way of seeing the world. Like any artist, each person takes the experiences of a lifetime and integrates them into a complex representation of the world. That representation, the subjective consciousness that makes you you, integrates your memories, attitudes, beliefs, convictions, traumas, loves, fears, desires, and goals into your own distinct way of seeing. That representation helps you interpret all the ambiguous data your senses pick up, helps you predict what’s going to happen, helps you discern what really matters in a situation, helps you decide how to feel about any situation, helps shape what you want, who you love, what you admire, who you are, and what you should be doing at any given moment. Your mind creates a world, with beauty and ugliness, excitement, tedium, friends, and enemies, and you live within that construction. People don’t see the world with their eyes; they see it with their entire life.
Cognitive scientists call this view of the human person “constructionism.” Constructionism is the recognition, backed up by the last half century of brain research, that people don’t passively take in reality. Each person actively constructs their own perception of reality. That’s not to say there is not an objective reality out there. It’s to say that we have only subjective access to it. “The mind is its own place,” the poet John Milton wrote, “and in itself / Can make a Heaven of Hell, a Hell of Heaven.”
Related
- Feeling seen and understood is central to human experience
- Being egotistical prevents us from seeing and hearing others
- We tend to think that other people are not as deep as us
- Be holistic in our view of others
- One of the commonest and most generally accepted delusions is that every man can be qualified in some particular way-said to be kind, wicked, stupid, energetic, apathetic and so on... - Leo Tolstoy